Sex Questions? Ask ’em

There’s more to be said about sex and The Kinsey Institute, which I toured before their researcher Debby addressed us columnists Friday. It has a website called Kinsey Confidential for one thing where you can get information and ask her your own questions. When I roamed its galleries filled  with examples of erotic art I had to keep channeling Liam Neeson as he played Dr. Kinsey with his calm scientific manner. You sort of have to fix your mind on that manner so you don’t jump a mile when a passing staff worker greets you even as you are peering at an early 20th century photograph of a very limber gentleman executing a feat you wouldn’t think human anatomy would allow for. (“Thanks so much for visiting our center!” smiled one plump staffer of middle years, looking at me with the same warm expression Gandhi  might wear if he saw you giving your last crust bred to the poor.)

But the torment and guilt people have suffered over sex! The sin of what advertisers have done with sex in our own time, essentially stealing it from us, then trying to sell it back to us as a pair of jeans or shoes or makeup!

I’m getting too worked up though. Let me stop and watch again the trailer for that terrific film about Kinsey and his work. Let me look on the face of the luminous Laura Linney as his wife, the face of Liam himself who did not know when he made the film what suffering lay head for him, the faces of all those perplexed young people trying to come of age in this outwardly pious and violent culture.

2 thoughts on “Sex Questions? Ask ’em

  1. Yes! I realized the effect of media very emphatically the other day, when I got up early. Nothing ever appeared on TV when it was turned on, no matter which channel you shut it down on. Nothing, but ads trying to sell us something we don’t need, don’t want in the first place,and peppered with sexually explicit pictures, innuendo etc. A completely useless form of communication to say the least. Are we all a slave to this stupid form of advertisement? They have even managed to sneak in ads five minutes for the last end of a broadcast… Ask your shrink which is best for you!

  2. Speaking of television, how can we act so surprised, astonished, disgusted even when we find out our kids are sexually active as early as 10-12? The TV bombards them continuously with sexual messages. I’m thinking at the moment of the Victoria Secret ads that have teasing glimpses that titillate and tantalize young minds. (Old ones, too, methinks.) It is no different that delicious foods being advertised hundreds of times a day and we wonder why the population is obese??

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